Reprinted with permission,
Courtesy, Asbury Park Press, a Gannett Co. newspaper.
BY
PATTI MARTIN
ASBURY PARK PRESS STAFF WRITER
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, - Alexandra
Spano was not impressed.
Not with the brightly colored, child-friendly waiting room.
Not with the adjoining space, chock full of games, toys and
even an arcade machine.
Not even with her name on the dry erase board welcoming her
as a new patient.
"I don't know about this," the 4-year-old said, wrapping her
arms around her mother's legs and hiding her face. "Maybe we
can go."
"Don't worry," older sister Taylor, 8, said, comforting her
sibling. "It really is going to be fun."
Twenty minutes later, a smiling and giggling Allie, as she is
called, was back, a balloon crafted hat on her head and a goody
bag in her hands.
"It was fun," the Jackson resident said, showing a toothy grim. "Going
to the dentist is fun."
Pediatric dentist Madeline Badalaty, who's been in practice
for 17 years, knows the apprehension many first-time, pint-size
patients may feel.
"It's something new," the Ocean Township-based dentist said, "so
it's my job to make the first visit — and every visit — the
best it can be."
Taking 4-year-old Allie's hand in her own at the start of the
visit, Badalaty led the young girl into the examination room
and helped her into the chair.
"Now, I have a rule for you," Badalaty said, looking her young
charge in the eye. "I want you to keep your hands on your tummy
all the time."
Allie looked perplexed at first, but Badalaty made a silly face
and was rewarded with a small giggle.
Swiveling her stool around, Badalaty turned to Allie's mom,
Tresa.
"And I have a rule for you — you're not allowed to talk
unless I ask you a question," she explained. "This visit is all
about Alexandra."
For the next 15 minutes, Badalaty, who is also chairman of pediatric
dentistry at Monmouth Medical Center in Long Branch, worked her
dental magic, examining Allie's teeth, cleaning them, providing
a fluoride treatment and talking to Allie about the importance
of brushing her teeth. Each step was done in a child-friendly
way, explained in terms the young girl could easily understand.
When it came time for fluoride, Badalaty explained she was "painting
on some vitamins for your teeth.
"Now you can't eat or drink for an hour," Badalaty said, "because
we have to let the vitamins do their work. Do you understand?"
An enthusiastic head nodding let Badalaty know her message was
received loud and clear.
For the majority of the visit, all attention was on Allie and
her teeth.
At one point, though, Badalaty made a point to talk to Tresa
Spano.
Noticing a bit of gingivitis on Allie's gum, Badalaty turned
and explained that the young girl — and her mom — needed
to go to toothbrushing school.
"It's important to brush correctly," Badalaty explained, "and
while she can brush by herself in the morning, I really want
you or your husband to brush her teeth at night."
Finding a teachable moment, Badalaty went on to explain that
until a child is 7 or 8 years old, their fine motor skills have
not yet developed.
"We just want to practice good dental health," Badalaty.
And seemingly before she could spell tooth fairy, Allie's first
dental examination was over.
But not the visit.
Pulling a balloon from her pocket, Badalaty began to blow. Several
big blows later, Badalaty tied off the end.
"Look, it's a sword," Badalaty, gesturing with the balloon.
A few twist laters . . . "Look, it's the number nine."
Turning the twisted balloon upside down . . . "Look, it's the
number six."
Finishing up with a flourish and a twist, Badalaty placed the
balloon on Allie's head.
"Now you have a hat," Badalaty said.
But there was more.
"Here's your goody bag," the dentist said, handing Allie a bag
filled with a toothbrush, toothpaste, magnet and more. "And now
you can pick a prize."
Allie debated for several minutes, fingering a variety of trinkets,
before finally making a selection.
"I'm not telling," she said, "it's a surprise."
While she may not have revealed the goody she selected, that
wasn't the case when it came to talking about her first visit
to the dentist.
"It was good, really good," Allie said. "I think I'll come back."
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