Dealing with cancer or caring for a loved one with cancer can be both emotionally and physically draining. That’s why many patients benefit from support they get from those who are bonded by the same fears, concerns and sorrow.  

No one knows better what a patient or family member is going through than someone who has had or is having the same experience. Connecting with a person or persons with whom you can freely discuss your fears, pain and side effects of treatment can help tremendously. At Clara Maass Medical Center Cancer, three ongoing cancer support groups offer assistance:  Cancer, Caregivers Strength Through Caring, and Breast Cancer. 

Caregivers Support Group

The Caregivers Strength Through Caring Support Group was started to address the needs of those who are dealing with the many emotions associated with caring for someone with cancer. Sponsored in part by the Oncology Education Society and Ortho Biotech, the group’s purpose is twofold: to discuss symptom management and to touch on varying psychosocial issues. 

According to Raylene Langish, R.N., oncology nurse educator who moderates the group, the group serves as an important vehicle for people to vent their anger, frustration, and even guilt. “Besides being educational this group provides an open and confidential environment for people to express their feelings,” Raylene says. 

Emphasis is not only placed on how to care for a loved one with cancer but also on how caregivers should care for themselves. Participants are encouraged to keep a journal of their feelings and to treat themselves to something special at least once a week. 

The Caregivers Support Group meets once a month in the 3 South Annex Solarium of the Medical Center. For times or for more information, call Raylene Langish at 450-2332.

New Cancer Support Group 

Clara Maass has started a support group for patients undergoing treatment for various types of cancer and their families.  The group meets the first Wednesday of the month at 6 p.m. in the Medical Center’s 3 South Solarium, and a light dinner is included.  The group is led by Rosalyn Dilligard, RN, OCN, the nurse manager of Oncology Services, who has 20 years of experience in oncology nursing and case management. 

The purpose of the group is to provide support and educational material relating to cancer treatment. Guest speakers will be featured at each meeting and meetings may include discussions led by the American Cancer Society, pharmacy and chaplains at the hospital. Anyone wishing more information can call (973) 450- 2332. 

Breast Cancer Support 

Clara Maass Medical Center is dedicated to breast health awareness and breast cancer support.  A free support group targets those with breast cancer and those affected by breast cancer. 

Featured speakers are announced prior to each meeting, which takes place the last Monday of the month at 4 p.m. in the Women’s Health Center Conference Room, located on the ground floor of the Continuing Care Center.  Refreshments are served and parking is free. 

For further information or to register for a meeting, call Raylene Langish, (973) 450-2332.  The group is sponsored by the Clara Maass Medical Center Department of Oncology Services.